81 Our four children and our first grandchild are happily married. True love generates more love! In order to be happily married and rear a loving family, we must be prepared to give and take, forgive each other, and also avoid differences of opinion. Happy marriage does not happen automatically, but true love and faith in God will overcome all obstacles. Love and trust is a priceless value, but it takes years of refusing evil temptations to earn the title of trustworthy. None of us will ever know how many people truly love and trust us, including our own families. The only person in the world who knows if you can be trusted is you, and God. Most of us use the expression ‘trust me’. Next time you say this to someone, take notice of the other person’s reaction. The chances are that that person is thinking ‘why should I’. If humanity worldwide could be loved and trusted, then Satan and his servants would not survive, and the whole world would be a peaceful place forever. Sharing the love from your heart with someone is one of God’s greatest gifts! Sometimes sharing your time is just as important as sharing your money. The following story happened to me. It was one of those days when you have a lot on your mind, and you are looking forward to going home to rest. On the way home, I stopped to buy a newspaper and I met up with a friend I had known for a long time. He wanted to talk about the huge problems he was having with his Bank Loan and his bad business partner. I tried to convince him that I had the same problem in my earlier years in business, and that he was young enough to start again. He just wanted to keep on talking, so I felt obliged to listen. After about two hours, he said “I had better let you go”. We exchanged phone numbers, so that we could arrange for him to come to my place for dinner with his wife. I decided he could come on the same night that a friend of both of us, a Priest, usually came. When I arrived home, I asked my wife if it was possible for Allan and his wife to come the next night since, at that time, we were moving house. Helen was busy with the packing, so we decided to get together the week after.