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WELLBEING
79
The Private Practice
Winter 2013
INSTALLING YOUR
`OFF' SWITCH
The first step is known as a `boundary
ritual' ­ it's a specific action you take
at the boundary between work and
home, and it's designed to send an
`Off'signaltoyourconsciousand
subconscious mind.
This ritual is something you design
and practice with the mindful intention
that it will switch off the parts of your
doctor programming that don't serve
you when you are away from work and
stow away the stresses of this day until
you return.
Here are some examples of simple
boundary rituals:
·Beforeyousitdownandtalk
with your family, take a shower
and/or change your work
clothes for home clothes.
·Takeadeepandcleansingbreath,
sink into your seat or give
yourself a whole body stretch
with an audible sigh as you release
the cares of your work day.
·Whenyouarrivehome,gofora
walk around the block before going
inside. While walking, practice
using your steps to release work
and come into the present.
Flickingyourdoctorswitch`Off'
is the first step to creating work/life
balance and it will allow you to be
completely present with your family
and friends.
LASTING EFFECTS
There are three keys to building an
effective`Off'switch:
1. Utilise all of your senses:
Your boundary ritual ideally
contains as many sensory
modalities as possible. The
four big ones are movement,
sound, feeling and intention.
2. Use a `trigger': A trigger is an
existing habit ­ something you
always do each time you leave the
office or enter your home. You
use this as a trigger to remember
to perform your boundary ritual.
Common triggers include:
·Turningoffyourofficelights.
·Puttingthekeysinyour
car ignition.
·Turningthecaroffwhenyou
arrive home.
·Graspingthedoorknobof
your home.
3.Proceed with mindfulness and
intention: Practice your ritual with
mindfulness and a clear intention
to release, relax, let go and turn the
doctorprogramming`Off'.Youcan
even say a short phrase to yourself,
such as: "I release the doctor until
the next time he/she is needed".
Remember, building your own
`Off'switchandcreatingtruework/
life balance is a process. You have been
conditioned to be constantly switched
`On',soitwilltakesomepracticeand
tweaking to refine your boundary ritual
and turn off the mind chatter once you
walk out of your practice door.
BUILD YOUR OWN `OFF' SWITCH
Start by answering these three questions:
·Whatwouldyouliketouseasyourfirstpassataboundaryritual?
·Whatwillyouuseasyourtriggertohelpyourememberyourritual?
·Whenwillyoutryitout?
When you arrive home, go for a walk
around the block before going inside.