c u l p r i t b e h i n d y o u r
meager or failed success?
question from all the angles. For
instance, when we hear the word
"inheritance", we quickly think of
large sums of money or valuable
assets being passed down. But there's
another type of inheritance our
emotional and mental inheritance.
infants, we can't tell the difference
between our individual thoughts and
emotions and those of our parents.
As we grow, we keenly experience
our parents' anxieties and inhibitions,
and are most vulnerable to the
emotional and mental messages
being passed down our emotional
inheritance. While we do inherit many
positive qualities, in many cases, the
emotional messages we become heir
to, often have inhibitions attached
to them that sabotage our quality
of life.
loathing, scarcity, fear, self-doubt,
helplessness, etc. -- some
are passed down, others
are learned through social
conditioning. But, the greatest
damage is done when we
willingly accept and build on
these inherited weaknesses.
M a k e n o m i s t a k e , o u r
emotions are a very essential
part of who we are we
cannot be successful without
support our efforts towards success,
instead of sabotaging them I call
this "managing the emotional side of
your success." Here are five things to
consider that will help you confront
your inhibitions towards success:
inhibitions towards success, and then
challenge the validity or benefits of
engaging in such behavior. You are
not indebted to these weaknesses, so
there's absolutely no reason to keep
letting them control you.
don't own it because we're addicted
to the opinions of others. You have to
wean yourself from this addiction and
totally embrace your purpose so much
so that you breathe and sleep it let it
become your
energy source.
you from sending
FAITH (strong belief
chance, but by intention, you are
in position to achieve your greatest
outcome.
counterproductive for God to work
against His own will. He wants you
to prosper in every way. You have to
TRUST that as a fact not a feeling.
don't understand the importance of
giving yourself permission. Self-
permission is a prerequisite to all your
goals. From experiencing success in
health, love, and purpose to receiving
the blessing of God giving yourself
permission to "succeed" and "receive"
is the ultimate requirement for a
greater quality of life. You succeed
when you allow yourself to.
NLP coach, and author of the book,
Giving Myself Permission: Putting
Fear and Doubt in Their Place and
the audio CD Asking for Richer
Ground: The Power of Your Words.
She is also the founder of the Giving
Myself Permission (GMSP) Initiatives.
More information on the author can
be found at www.penniemurray.com and
www.givingmyselfpermission.com.