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The Private Practice
Autumn 2013
ESCAPE
I've discovered the secret to
reinvigoration ­ Bali!
I'm of an age (a few weeks short
of 50) where the concept of work/life
balance is beginning to consume my
thoughts. Following an extremely hard
working year for my wife Michelle and
I, the ingredients of necessity, research
and luck converged at the end of 2012
to result in a family holiday that truly
ticked all the boxes.
Holidays, for me, have always been
about exotic adventure, immersing
myself in the culture of another country,
with lots of action, lots of experience,
lots of stimulation and plenty of good
food thrown into the mix.
While I don't think this motivation
will ever change, I have to acknowledge
that almost without exception, I
have returned from family holidays
exhausted and needing another holiday.
To be an effective person at work
and at home, I now know that I need
to make time for rest and rejuvenation
of body, mind and spirit ­ a recharge
of batteries to cope with the hectic
pace and demands of business and
family life.
I've had this discussion with
many healthcare professionals and all
acknowledge the supreme importance
of `regeneration' for many reasons,
not least of which is to ensure optimal
patient care.
Apart from personal and
professional effectiveness, a family
holiday focused on slowing down
to `smell the roses' leads to bonding
and relationship building, and adds
to the library of family experience
(particularly in our children's formative
years) that can define the quality of our
life now, and as we get older.
Those of you who have attended
our business, financial and lifestyle
management courses will have heard
me speak of the most-often quoted
regret of retiring doctors and other
healthcare professionals ­ "not enough
family holidays".
That is to say, not enough quality
time with our families, especially
during the early years, when time
together results in experience and
memories that sustain us and become
the focal point of our interaction the
more `senior' we become.
There are, however, some logistical
problems with meeting the demands
of work, the practice, patients, family,
financial responsibilities and personal
physical and mental health. Foremost
among these is the issue of time.
Most healthcare professionals I
know are loath to take more than two
weeks off at a time, lest their referrers
establish new relationships.
In addition, most healthcare practices
are ­ sadly ­ not run as businesses,
and if the practitioner/principal is not
there,themoneystopsflowing.
Putting aside the fundamental
operationalflawsthatleadtothis
thinking, the reality for most practice
principals is that they have two
successive weeks to devote to family
holidays ­ aside from shorter stints
throughout the year, which I contend
cannot achieve effective resuscitation.
If you are doing better than this and
achieving the goals mentioned above,
then I commend you ­ you are among
a very small percentage who have got
it right.
So, given the time limitations, the
need for family attention, personal
rejuvenation and some cultural experience
with a bit of adventure thrown in,
I offer my recent two-week holiday
experience as a prescription for success.
TAKING FLIGHT
Michelle, myself and our seven-year-old
twins Manoli and Emanuella arrived
at Bali's Denpassar Airport after a
relativelyshort(six-hour)flightfullof
excitement and anticipation. We had
flownthroughthenight,gotabitof
rest on the plane and were now lapping
up the exotic hospitality of porters,
drivers and hotel reception staff.
Bali is not that far away. Unlike
tripsfartherafield,theflightisnot
exhausting, and if you time your
departure right, you suffer very little
­ if any ­ jetlag. This means you don't
waste any time in recovery.
To make sure you can recharge your
batteries within a limited timeframe,
you need great hospitality and world-
class facilities at your fingertips ­ the
hallmarks of the 5-star resorts. Bali is
home to some of the best resorts in the
world, so it's worth doing your research
to ensure that you fulfil all of your
holiday wishes.
With 14 days up our sleeve, we
wanted to experience different aspects
of the island without wearing ourselves
ragged. We decided on three distinct
locations offering very different
environments:
·AyanaResortandSpaatJimbaran
­ expansive surrounds, ocean
views, close to the airport yet not
remotely affected by the hectic pace
of Seminyak, Leggian and Kuta.
·AlilaUbud­arainforestexperience
surrounded by mountains and set
in the island's cultural heart.
·AlilaVillasSoori,inthemore
remote Tabanan province ­ a
beachfront-based slice of minimalist
heaven bordered by black sands.